Anonymous asked: I'm a trans man, mostly on the gay side of bi, and thinking of dating, even after I have fully transitioned, just leaves me in despair. I think I'd make a decent boyfriend, especially in the romantic gesture and breakfast-cooking departments, but I don't even try to date. I know this is a blog for "wtf" stuff, but is there any cause for hope? Is there anyone who likes trans guys, who aren't lesbians or fucked-up old straight cis men?
Anon, I know many trans men who are in relationships, ones that cover the entire range available to cis people, from shitty to awwww-worthy. The more trans people I meet, the more I believe we really do have as much cause for hope as anyone else. It’s just that dating kinda sucks for everyone!
Don’t give up hope. And keep getting even better at breakfast. I know that would win my heart!
p.s. I’ve been so busy with the Trans 100, I haven’t had a chance to catch up here, or on Trans Love Stories, but do check out the latter for a bit of inspiration.